I’ve been doing my due diligence for follow up (you have to do that!), not only emails though these days but phone calling too (because frankly that seems to be the only thing that’s working in marketing?).
What I’m finding though and from the women I spoke with at the conference as well as when I’m just out and about in my own networking is that there needs to be a big SHIFT in our thinking ladies!
I’ve been working on this stuff (my own ‘stuff’) for going on 4 years now mind you…what I’m referring to is kicking up our self confidence and self esteem in regards to what we provide, offer and how we do business!
I can’t tell you how many women I’ve spoken to lately, many at the conference as well, who don’t fully believe in themselves?!?!? I was shocked actually that this is such a huge occurance in our world today.
Of course us women entrepreneurs are taking over and multiplying like we’re in a frenzy too. We’re building our businesses and getting out there so fast and often times elevating ourselves to bigger levels so quickly that our ‘mindsets’ and confidence levels can’t keep up.
Then lack of confidence or lesser confidence projects uncertainty, uncertainty projects lack of expertise and lack of expertise (or the perception of it by our prospects and clients) is what holds us back from making more sales or growing our practice or business.
If you’re often thinking to yourself things such as:
1. You’re not good enough
2. You don’t deserve it 
3. You don’t know if anyone will pay for your products/services
4. You’re not an expert (yet)
5. You can’t charge that much
6. No one will care about your passions and what you really want to do
Or worse, you’re thinking:
7. I feel fat
8. I’m lonely
9. I wish ‘he/she’ would only understand me
10. I can’t do that
11. I can’t afford that
Then you’re going to be stuck where you are in your business for a really long time. You may even go OUT of business if you’re not careful.
What you think about becomes your reality.
What you talk about becomes your reality.
What you listen to becomes your reality.
You will become like the top 5 people you hang around. (would that be good or bad i your case?)
Think about it for a minute…
Imagine if you DID NOT do the following things for a whole week:
1. watch the news
2. be around negative, energy sucking people
3. be around people who didn’t believe in you or support you
4. listen to things, videos, audios, speakers, television shows, etc. that caused you anxiety or caused you to become upset, angry or depressed
And imagine instead that you DID DO the following:
1. hung around really successful, happy and motivated people 
2. sat and thought about what you really wanted in life no matter what your situation may be; you dreamed and planned bigger
3. took some time for yourself; for pampering, more sleep, working out and doing whatever makes you totally HAPPY
What’s it going to take to get you to where you want to be?
What has to change in your life to give you more happiness, more joy, more success, more love and more passion for life and all it has to enjoy? Because you CAN HAVE IT ALL but you may just not BELIEVE IT??? Or you may not know or see ‘HOW’ it can happen for you….but that’s just logistics and rarely do any of us know ‘HOW’ we’re going to get where we want to get; we just have to keep stepping out into it towards our bigger missions, visions and passions and then the ‘HOW’ kind of just ‘shows up’!
I hope you’ll think about that seriously because THIS STUFF AFFECTS YOUR BUSINESS’ SUCCESS you know…if you don’t focus some time and effort on making yourself a happier person – personally AND professionally then what’s the point anyway?
If you want to find out ways to enjoy more passion, purpose, love and more money too in your life then you definitely want to attend my Love and Money Business Summit this November 11-14 in San Francisco…
