Help Me Find Mr. Right!

Help Me Find Mr. Right!?!?

I know this is a little unorthodox and a little weird maybe for me to put this out there – but what the heck, right? I believe that “If you don’t ASK, you don’t RECEIVE!”

As part of my 2008 goals, I would love to find ‘Mr. Right for me’.

I’ve tried internet dating sites, singles groups that hook you up in dinners and events each month with supposedly ‘like-minded’ people of the opposite sex and even a friend or two have tried to hook me up….not a lot of luck yet.

So, I thought I would put this out there to you, my loyal ezine subscribers or blog readers, to help me. Granted I know that some of you are very far from me here in Sacramento, California. However we’ve all got ‘networks’, right?

The guy on the left is an example of a ‘good referral’ for me and the one on the right is an example of a ‘not so good referral’ for me. ;0)

You probably know great single guys all over the place or who’s to say if it was a good connection, traveling wouldn’t be an option. After all, I do have mostly an internet focused business these days!

So here goes….If you really, really want to know what Mr. Right looks like to me….this is a very good start!

Highly motivated in business but still believes in having balance, has goals

Would put me first and think of me all the time (at the store, with friends, in the car, etc.)

Very affectionate and attentive (in public and private)

Very outgoing and sociable (able and willing to talk to anyone in any setting if need be)

Also somewhat interested in being a homebody – home improvements, updating, entertaining

Somewhat romantic if not really romantic (sends flowers, gives cards, leaves notes, cooks dinner, etc.)

Has a lot of his own friends (so I know he has a life beyond me with his own interests)

Supportive of what I do, interested in knowing about it and being involved

Financially stable and smart with money although not ‘cheap’ (got to be a good tipper)

Preferably owns his own home or on his way

Preferably has one or two kids (ages 4-14?)

Has a good relationship with his ex if he has one

Family oriented whether has a big or small family

Thoughtful and respectful of others and me

Selfless and generous yet respects himself and doesn’t always do for others, believes in taking care of himself too

Caring and a bit emotional when it comes to a relationship

Able to communicate openly and honestly any time, doesn’t hold things in or hold grudges

Sees other people’s opinions and sides of the story, doesn’t just see his (rational)

Probably between the ages of 35-42 or could be a bit older but needs to have a really young ‘look’ about him

Preferably at least 5’9” tall and somewhat fit, not very overweight

Likes to workout but isn’t a fanatic about it

Can be sarcastic and have a fun personality and sense of humor

Strong and confident in himself, not self conscious at all

Preferably lives within a ½ hour of me

Someone who makes time to see me even if he has a busy schedule

Trustworthy of course and a one-woman type of guy

Someone who listens to and respects my opinions and advice

Huge physical attraction to each other

Someone who wants to take care of me – physically, mentally and emotionally (financially not as important)

Someone who thinks I’m funny and who’s proud of me

He would believe in the law of abundance, setting intentions and some sort of a higher power as well as believing in karma

Someone who can dress up nicely and doesn’t mind it or dress down too

Someone who knows who they are mentally, what they want and who they want to share that with

Someone who senses when I’m upset or something’s wrong and wants to help me

Someone who believes in ‘picking their battles’ meaning when they don’t care too much about something, they’ll do it the other person’s way and when something does matter to them strongly they will communicate that so the other person will hopefully give in to their way